Here's WHY:
After spending years working with patients to help them heal their broken relationships working with their nervous system, genetics, metabolic health, and trauma, what I quickly learned was that most people are stuck in a VICTIMHOOD cycle of tearing themselves apart.
Pay attention because this is one of the most important (and foundational things) you’ll ever learn in your life & if you don’t get it right now, it could cost you years of heartache, and tens of thousands of dollars while you keep torturing yourself.
Where most people focus on what they could have said differently and done better or they focus on finding the perfect partner, or believe the lie that they need to communicate better — what they’re missing is the CRUCIAL step that comes before anything else;
The way YOU communicate your Value.
Without being strongly rooted in your value & voice, you will always be in a weak VICTIMHOOD state trying to prove your value, and being seen as the Victim or Villain. You will waste years of precious time and money pouring into others and never receive grace to be truly seen and valued.
How to be Pursued, Cherished, and Valued

To be pursued and cherished for who you are, You Have to Discover and Embrace the unique flaws and gifts that are yours alone.
But There’s a Problem:
Say Goodbye To VICTIMHOOD Belief Patterns
A belief that you have to figure out why they don't value you or how to better serve them creates VICTIMHOOD victimhood & villain behavior patterns, leaving you feeling like you are walking on eggshells, resulting in you pouring so much energy into relationships that you are depleted again and again.
You’re constantly rehashing conversations in your mind, making you feel like you just need to figure out how to better communicate your value, and wondering why you can't get through to them.
- Then you feel frustrated and not sure if you should scream or run away and cry, creating even more VICTIMHOOD belief patterns in your brain and leaving you more depleted and confused.
- The periods in your relationships like this are patterns that you will continue to attract and perpetuate. You find yourself again and again questioning, why you are in this personal relationship or business relationship, as it spirals into you wondering why they don't pursue and value you.
What’s going to happen to your relationships if you DON’T Clarify & Communicate Your Value?
A VICTIMHOOD state of mind creates vicious painful cycles of confusion and loss of relationships while you and the other people in the relationship argue over who is in the right or wrong... A Value Mindset creates playful cycles of confidence gaining new admiration and appreciation in your relationships while they witness your proactive powerful growth mindset.
A VICTIMHOOD Mindset triggers self doubt, guilt, shame, and endless pouring from an empty cup... A Value Mindset instills grace, self acceptance, purpose, being pursued, valued, and cherished for who you are as you are.
A VICTIMHOOD Mindset hides your gifts, purpose, wisdom, energy, and voice... A Value Mindset makes you irresistibly magnetic to the people and places where you are meant to shine.
Value Mindsets Create Miracle Women who Delight in Life
You presence embodies power and peace.